Self-Doubt

Moments of self doubt are the most underestimated but the most beautiful moments in our lives.Some event occurs in our lives that triggers intense feelings of self doubt and low self esteem.You feel like you are not meant to do whatever it is that you're after and you feel unqualified and dumb.You feel like retreating into a shell and living a monotonous life.

These moments are beautiful not because everyone needs a taste of the dirt once in a while.They're beautiful because it is your decisions during these moments that determine what you make of your lives.It may be good or bad,but these decisions are so crucial that you will feel their impact for a long time after you make them.

Self doubt can be harmful for a person with high ambitions.Its like a parasite,dwelling in you,taking nourishment from your experiences and in return all it does is slowly poison you.It makes your goals feel impossible and it makes you feel insecure.

No matter how many achievements you've had in life and how many different talents you have,all it does is to focus on your faults,your weaknesses,your negatives.All the things that you do not want to become what you are,are now placed in front of your minds eyes,showing you how worthless you are,begging you to not get up from where you are seated,or to not raise your voice and speak your thoughts.

These little moments of control that self-doubt exercises on you can be dealt with in just one step.All you have to do is to realize is that this voice that tells you that you can not do it is not you.It is just an echo of all the negative emotions in the world.

You are much more than that,a cyclone,a force of nature.All you have to do is to give in to your senses and let your brain work its way out of the situation.Most of the time,the main problem is ourselves.We forget to accept that our flaws are minuscule and not the giant we make it to be.

Self-doubts greatest source of nourishment is failure.When in reality,failure could be the greatest head start one can get in realizing what is right for them.It takes us a lot of time to realize this,sometimes we wont realize this when ages have passed and we look back and realize that the little failure that we were mourning about was actually the best thing to have happened to us.

"Doubts kill more dreams than failure ever will" 

Hence we should always remember to trust ourselves and focus on our goals.If we work hard enough and believe in ourselves,despite all the failures,there is nothing in the world that can stop us from getting what we want.